Monday, October 23, 2017

Happiness

October 24, 2017 ·
Happiness
It is a widely held belief, if not universally, that happiness is the goal of life. The idea of happiness and its centrality to life is a product of human mind and civilisation.
The word ‘happiness’ is used to denote many subtly different things.
Happiness can be emotional or intellectual, arising from feelings or thought.
Happiness, to my mind, may be in three different ways:
One is from simple gratification of the senses. Mere eating gives a lot of happiness. Let us call this joy or pleasure.
Another is from pure state of mind. This is at first sight rather philosophical or intellectual, but it is not academic. The more we decide to be happy the more we will be. Many of the sources of unhappiness arise from non-existent situations or situations whose probability of occurrence is remote or eventualities over which we have no control. Let us say the state of mind happiness as happiness.
Spiritually, we talk of ananda and it is translated as happiness, but let us call it bliss. It is a condition or property of the soul. It is on a different plane.
To be sure, mind is involved in all the three.
Pleasure relates to expectation of sense fulfilment. It is obviously calibrated on the scale of expectation. The greater the expectation, the lesser the satisfaction. If the expectation is multidimensional and not narrowed down to a few things, the chances of deriving satisfaction are greater. People expect some sort of a trading profit. They want greater reward than warranted by effort. That happens fewer times than expected.
Is intelligence a source of happiness or unhappiness? Perhaps, neither. By the definition or division that we have by convention and unwritten consensus, happiness is an emotional state and intelligence is connected with knowledge. Knowledge may give happiness, i.e. it affects us emotionally. It may make us unhappy also because of the value we attach to certain things and the risk to such things knowledge tells us about. Worrying and brooding are not signs of intelligence and should not be confused with a genuine search for knowledge based on experience and contemplation. Sometimes, some people may be impatient when another is rather slow at the uptake and that may produce irritation, but it is due to temperament and not intelligence.
As in everything else, whether we are happy or not depends largely on us, on what we are looking for, how in tune with life we are.



24/10/2018

Happiness is a state of mind and a choice. To have tried well and failed cannot make one unhappy. Being fully in what we are doing is the key to happiness, not the outcome.

I am glued to the Indian theory that success is determined not just by our efforts alone. As we mature, we do not let our poise and equanimity be disturbed by the outcome after unreserved and honest efforts, neither success is all due to us nor is failure the result of our incompetence.

The result of our effort is not determined by some non-descript past event, but by so many factors that have a bearing on the job. If an industry fails because of some sudden policy change or new taxation, we cannot blame the industrialist. He could not have controlled it unless he was an ambani. We cannot say that he should not have started the industry or that he should have had a plan B. If we can cover all risks, the industry must be doomed to fail from day one. It is a wrong set of mind to think that we should keep quiet because other factors also have a bearing on the result. We have seen this happen, sort of, in our asking the staff to come in time. Surely, head office was an uncontrollable external factor, but to have stopped to even expect that the staff should come in time is a criminal failure. Despite the best efforts, one may fail. Instances of individual success cannot prove anything. More things fail than succeed. That should not be the barometer of happiness. To be engaged in action with a good end in view with one's body, mind and heart is the natural thing to do and we must do it in a happy frame of mind and we must continue with that happy frame whatever happens. It may not happen, then we should introspect and improve.


7/10/18
Go to yourself for happiness and salvation.
A Jagadguru said, "The whole world is my guru." He uttered a profound truth. He was self-effacing and godly. (A person can be godly, not god).
The world is the only god and the only guru. It grants us all the boons and teaches us all the lessons.

Dec 17, 2005

Everyone gives a way to be happy. Happiness is touted as the chief aim of life. No one denies that happiness is a desired state, but the problem is when it is stated as the objective.

Hindu thinking perhaps was different. In Vishnu sahasranamam, in the palasruthi, it is said: “By reciting the slokas,

 A Brahmin will get the wisdom of Vedanta,

 A Kshathriya will be victorious,

 A Vaisya will get wealthy and

 A Sudra will get comforts (sukham).”

The objective of all people is not one and the same. Material comfort is not preferable to other goals for all individuals. It does not mean that one pursuit is superior to another. Different people have different urges. The dharma varies. The nature varies. Life is pluralistic. It is not a strait jacket. 

Jun 16, 2006

We all tend to share our misery. That is why the world is so full of misery. If we share our happiness, it will be full of happiness.


Sep 9, 2006

All our problems arise when we look at others. We get justice, happiness when we look at ourselves.

Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Ramayanam – a few thoughts - 2

48.  Rama exposes the fallacy in what Jabali has said in good intention. “You sound as though you are talking for my good, but you are not. A man of broken character, who violates custom and indulges in sinful acts, would never earn the respect of right minded people. It is one’s sustained behaviour that indicates whether one is pure or not, of great lineage or not, and a true Veera or just a pretender. If I renege on my pledge, how can I expect to attain heaven? What example would I be setting? As the kings do, so do the subjects. The essence of governance is enforcing truthfulness. Truthfulness is the very foundation of the society. I will follow the truth come what may and carry out my father’s wish, which I have pledged to do.”

Jabali clarifies that he did not advocate nastikya and that what he said was out of love and consideration for Rama.

Vasishta gives a good chit to Jabali and tells Rama that in his lineage primogeniture was the tradition and he should honour it. While parents give birth to a child, Acharya gives wisdom and is therefore called guru. His word is worthy of respect and following the advice of his (Vasishta is Rama;s guru), he would not be committing any sin. By doing good for the elders and the subjects, he would be upholding dharma. Attending on his aged and bereaved mother, he would be doing his duty. Rama would have none of it. He politely replies, ‘I owe my existence to my father and I cannot think of violating his order. What parents do cannot be requited.”

49. Bharata is dejected. He wants to go on hunger-strike in protest. Possibly, the idea was first documented here! Gandhi may not be the patent-holder for it! Rama quotes the rule book and says a Brahmana may do such things, but not a Kshatriya. Bharata then tries to rouse the public to make Rama return. But, they turn it down. Rama, they say, stands by truth and he would not budge. Bharata does not yet give up. He offers substituted performance. He would live in the forest for fourteen years. ‘Leaving no stone unturned’ is the most apt for Bharata. Rama is wonder-struck. But, there was no way he would yield. He says, ‘What Kaikeyi asked for was right to her. What my father agreed to was right for him. It would be wrong for me to let another person to undergo the rigour of compliance with the order of exile. I shall make my father’s word stand true. Bharata is a great soul. Everything will turn out well for him. I will return after fourteen years and take over the reins.”

 

50. Sita is troubled by Rama’s promise to protect the Rishis against the Rakshasas. She reasons with Rama, ‘There are at least three indulgences one should avoid: perjury, adultery and unprovoked violence. I am sure you steer clear of the first two meticulously, but your undertaking to use arms against the Rakshasas who have not crossed your path appears to fall in the third sin. It is alright for a king to bear arms to protect the citizens, but for one who is on penance in the forest where is the need for arms except in self-defence? You must resume your Kshatriya dharma after going back to Ayodhya. You know better and do what strikes you as right.’ Rama appreciates the fine point made by Sita and is proud of her active interest in his following the right course. He replies, ‘You yourself have said that it is the duty of the kings to protect the innocent. The Rishis have made a fervent plea about the atrocities committed on them and I had to assure them protection. It is now my duty to uphold it.’ This part of Rama’s character to protect those that seek his help is again seen when Vibhishana switches sides. In fact, Rama cites in defence of killing Vali that he did it to render justice as a representative of Bharata, the ruler.

51. Surpanakha berates Ravana when she goes to report the wholesale destruction of his clan at Janasthana. She brings out several aspects of what a king should or should not do. Says she, ‘People do not give much regard to a ruler who is selfish, indulges in base luxuries and goes about as his fancy dictates. The king who does not attend to his affairs personally in a timely manner perishes. Kings, who have no control over themselves and do not take care of their kingdom, count for nothing. The rulers who do not have control over their exchequer, spies and strategy are no different from commoners. The rulers are reputed as farsighted when they see, by gathering intelligence, everything that matters even when it lies far away.’

 

52. Surpanakha scolds Ravana for being infatuated in bodily pleasures, but incites him to indulge in the same by suggesting abduction of Sita. It is a sort of dramatic irony. She knows Ravana’s weakness and exploits it to take revenge on Rama who rejected her. Ramayana is a great epic that throws in focus how kama can manouevere people. We saw Dasaratha as a victim. Ravana is another who takes down his entire race because of his lust. Surpanakha paves the way for that because she was love-smitten, but was spurned. There is no need to see a divine scheme in all this. It is perfect human folly at play alongside virtue. The epic is a lesson as to what can go wrong and what should be done about it.

 

53. Maricha says to Ravana a golden lesson, “It is always easy to find people who talk sweet. But when it comes to what is good but not so pleasing to the ears, it is hard to find anyone who would venture to tell and anyone who would be willing to listen.” But, Ravana tells him curtly, “I did not come to you for advice, I came for help.” This is also a fitting lesson. We find ourselves in a similar situation in ordinary life. People rarely look to us for advice, something we have in abundant supply. To desist from advising others (FB excepted) is a worthy practice.

Maricha says, “A king who is reckless and treads on the wrong path should be restrained by well-meaning counselors in every possible manner.” There is a KuraL which has the same import: “Idippaarai illaadha aemaraa mannan

Keduppaar ilaanum kedum. Without courageous counselors to point out his fault and so protect him, a king will ruin himself, even without foes.”

Maricha says how all his subjects will be destroyed because of his sin, and how true! “Even those who are pure and have committed no sin, will get destroyed for the sins of others, like fish in a pool that is inhabited by snakes. Many a good man who followed Dharma and Yōga has perished along with his kith and kin, because of the offences of someone else.” Those who are exercised by the question of evil and find solace in some scriptural promise of reward and punishment must ponder how such things happen at random and wantonly.

 

54. Maricha talks clearly how Viswamitra went to Dasaratha and got Rama to protect his sacrifice, and also how Kaikeyi’s intrigue led to Rama’s exile. There are several such instances that look unrealistic. How did they know such details?

 

55. Sita tells Ravana that Rama is twenty-five years old and that she is eighteen years old. This must be at the time of going on exile. The story that she was elder to Rama is not from Valmiki. Twelve years they spent together in Ayodhya, she says. That is Rama was thirteen and she was six at marriage.

 

56. Sita says, “My husband will come, bringing with him a variety of wild meats from his kill such as that of black striped deer, mongoose and boar.” Food is a matter of custom and availability.

 

57. Ravana shows Sita his opulence, vividly described by Valmiki. He tries to win her over by pointing out his prowess and wealth, Rama’s abject state being on exile, the invincibility of Lanka that was well surrounded by the ocean difficult to cross, and the fleeting nature of youth. He also had the cheek to say that her bad days of living in the forest are over and the time of enjoyment has commenced. Infatuated, he says that he will touch her feet with his head, which he has not done with any other lady. Ravana considers that with all the allurement on offer, he has won Sita over. He has subjugated many a woman this way by force. All this enhances the preciousness of Sita’s chastity, which she preserves single-mindedly. When she replies she puts a grass across and talks to the grass. She has been molested by Ravana, but that happened beyond her power. As for her own conduct, she wants to treat him as a blade of grass, and does not want to talk to him one to one.

 

58. Sita tells Ravana, ‘Life for you is as impossible as it is for an animal tied to the sacrificial post.” The fact was that animals were tied to the sacrificial post and killed as offering. It was believed that the animals would go to heaven. If Buddha fought against this and won, it is no wonder. 

A digression.

It is cruel, and I will come under instant fire, but I feel we should know what happened to get a right perspective why Buddhism and Jainism caught on. Sankara’s philosophy emphasizing why karma cannot give liberation has this background. The whole thing was practised for attaining to better worlds. Sankara, unlike the agnostic faiths, did not repudiate the scripture, but pointed out to the ephemeral nature of the gains by such karma.

I am quoting rather in parts, and anyone interested can read the well researched book ‘Ka’ by Roberto Calasso.

“With a rope around its neck, the horse and a black dog.. were pushed towards the pond near the sacrificial clearing. . When the dog was out of its depth and began to flounder, .. the son of a prostitute attacked the dog with a wooden club… the dog would try to lift its head .. again it was clubbed. Then the priest would push its already inert body between the horse’s hooves, ..

They let the horse to wander around at will. ..

The most distressing moment for the horse was ..when, having tied him to the sacrificial pole, they then tied a further twelve victims, goats for the most part, .. to various parts of his body, and the goats would writhe around and tug at him ..

They made the horse crouch down .. then strangled him with the linen drape. The other animals -hundreds of them- were strangled with cords. The word they used was samjapayanti, ‘they make it acquiesce.’ .. ‘When they make a victim acquiesce, they kill it.’”

The author describes in what may be felt as repulsive the subsequent ceremony where the wives of the king approach the dead horse and do certain things.

 

59. There is grim irony that Ravana places Sita, steeped in deep soka, in Asokavana!

 

60. Rama is in inconsolable anguish missing Sita. He is distraught and acts like mad. He asks the flora and fauna about Sita’s whereabouts. He was cheerful when he was told of exile and did not blame anyone, but loss of Sita brings ordinary human instincts. He wonders whether it was the true intention of Kaikeyi in sending him on exile. Says he, ‘O Sita, because of you, Kaikēyi, will now have her wish fulfilled.’ He later swears that he will destroy the mountains, rivers and rocks because they do not tell him where Sita is.

He says later, ‘Dharma did not prevail to save Sita as she was being carried off in the great Vana. Which power in this world stood up for my well-being, when Vaidēhi was being devoured or abducted? The lords of Dēvas are certainly disregarding me as a weakling because I am gentle, keep myself in control, try my best for the good of the world, and show compassion.’ When a personal tragedy strikes, our belief in dharma is shaken. Rama is no exception. Valmiki also brings out beautifully through Rama in distress how goodness is mistaken for weakness. In his fit of rage, that is fully justified, he vows to take it out on all. That is the reaction in the first blush any ordinary human being would put forth. But, Rama was Rama and he would not carry into action a rash utterance.

Why did a hero, portrayed as noble and placed on a pedestal, behave so abjectly? Valmiki does not go into analysis. But, Vyasa finds a reason in Srimadbhagavatham: ‘That is to show the plight of those who are in mental knot with a woman.’

 

61. Even in that colossal grief, Rama thinks of dharma, while wailing, ‘I can’t live without Sita, and seeing me in the other world, my father will ask me how I went there without fulfilling his word.’

 

62. Here is a piece of poetic fancy. To Rama’s miserable plea to Godavari to tell him about the whereabouts of Sita, Valmiki says, ‘Thinking of the form and deeds of the evil minded Rāvaṇa, the river was gripped with fear and did not say anything about Sita.’

 

63. Without Sita, Rama says that his nights will be longer. Night, dark and cruel as it were, accentuates worries, pain and grief.

 

64. How did Rama choose to go southward in search for Sita? Lakshmana says, ‘Since the deer, questioned by you about Sita, rose up at once and pointed to the southerly direction, we shall do well to go that way; we may find a clue or even see her.’ They had further clue in the row of flowers strewn as they proceeded. Then they saw the giant footprint of Ravana and the small ones of Sita. They also saw the broken bow, chariot, etc. and then Jatayu. Uncharitably, even uncharacteristically, but perhaps understandably in his hour of grief of separation under sombre conditions, Rama suspects that the bird might have eaten Sita. Jatayu informs him that both Sita and his life have been snatched by Ravana. Jatayu ends his narration saying, ‘I do not deserve to be killed by you.’ Having heard from

Jatayu his valiant effort to prevent Sita’s abduction, he is filled with remorse. He curses his fate and says that having lost the kingdom, Sita, and now the friendly bird, he carries ill-luck with him like nobody else. A typical mood of human despondency in those trying times!

 

65. Here, Rama and Lakshmana play dummy reversal! Rama is in anger like Lakshmana when the order of exile is issued to Rama. Lakshmana reminds Rama of his nobility and counsels patience and effort to trace Sita and punish the really guilty, not the entire world. That is how life proceeds in a civilized society. Someone will blow the fuse now and then, and others have to douse the fire. Lakshmana says didactically for us, ‘If you cannot bear this grief, what about an ordinary man of average capabilities?’ That is the essence and purpose of this great story. Lakshmana quotes misfortunes suffered by other great people and inherent in nature. Such things occur and defy moral victory apparently. Lakshmana sets in bold relief the theory of fate, ‘It is difficult to know the virtues and flaws of actions that are not yet tried. Yet, without taking some action or the other, we cannot gain what we wish for.’ Human endeavour is supreme, but what is in store is never clear to us. To try is our dharma.

Lakshmana says, “सदा त्वं सर्वभूतानाम् शरण्यः परमा गतिः । O Rāghava! You are the ultimate refuge for all creatures.” Bhagavathas see reference to divinity in Rama in such passages.

Rama took the advice of Lakshmna who though was the younger.

 

66. कालो हि दुरतिक्रमः : This recurs in the epic. It is translated as ‘Fate can hardly be conquered.’ Kala has many meanings, but basically it is time. As march of time brings death, it also means Yama. Death is a function of time and time marches on bringing apparent changes. The march of time is inexorable, something that cannot be stopped or overcome. The fait accompli of time is fate. The past that is gone is not retrievable. Fate is just that, plus something more. In what has happened, there is a hidden future waiting to unfurl. To give a crude example, the diabetes that is in the gene is waiting to manifest under right conditions. Karma is that hidden future. But, there is yet scope for effort and redemption, remedy and cure. All future is not pre-determined, just that part which has got imbedded by past action that has left a potentially viable residue. It is unwise to blame on fate all that happens.

 

67. Pointing out how the eagle left its kith and kin, with whom it lived for thousands of years, gave up its life for his sake, Rama generalizes beautifully, and that is the bliss in life which we come across when our minds are open, “Everywhere, even among the lesser creatures, are to be found good souls that adhere to Dharma, who are valiant and the refuge of the weak and helpless.” We have heard stories of how dogs serve faithfully and how even some wild creatures show compassion. Only terrorists, like Ravana, are the inevitable exception.

 

68. Rama says, and there is no need to infer any exaggeration here, ‘Even the grief of losing Sita is secondary to me before losing this noble friend of my father, who is as good as my father.’ Rama does terminal rites for Jatayu which he could not do for Dasaratha. My teacher, a Srivaishnavite, saw in this a divine dispensation in that Dasaratha followed the lesser dharma disregarding the higher one (Rama being god) and so lost out on the rites being performed by him. Jatayu helped Rama (God) and was honored with the rites being performed by Rama. That is a way of interpretation by Bhagavatas. I am content to see just humanity in action. How did Rama give pinda to Jatayu? ‘He killed a deer, scooped out its meat, and turned into balls, and offered them to (the spirit of) the bird.’

 

69. In many places, portents, good or bad, are described before some major event. The belief that nature sends out signals of something imminent and momentous seems to have been rooted well in those times. It continues despite several duds. 

Ramayana has several interpolations. Even after ignoring them, the supernatural element is unavoidable. Those who have absolute faith take it literally and worship Rama as god and all the feats and incidents as divinely enabled. Those whose faith is not as strong can view it as a story, but the grandeur, relevance and chastening effect of reading Ramayana are irresistible and valuable. It has shaped along with Mahabharata the mindset of Indians for a long time, more than Vedas which were elitist and have practically gone into oblivion. 

Rajaji chose to narrate these two epics because of its hold on people and their influence in steering people to an ethical way of life, understanding that in the workaday world slips are unfortunately inevitable, but are not justifiable. 

 

70. Rama tells Lakshmana describing the beauty of spring in Risymuka hill on the banks of Pampa, with many a lake around, how his separation from Sita torments him at the sight of the romantic setting. The poetic fancy of Valmiki is explicit in, ‘The tree tops everywhere are loaded with flowers and are held in tight embrace by the climbing vines which themselves have burst into bloom. Look at that peahen, mad with love, joining in step with her dancing husband. 

And the peacock, full of love and with his lovely feathers spread out, follows her running, with cries that seem to make fun of her. Assuredly no Rākshasa has carried off the beloved of the peacock from the forest, and so he can dance with his beloved in the beautiful woods. It is very difficult for me to live without Sita in this month of bloom. Look how impassioned even the simpler forms of life are; even the peahen importunes her mate, impelled by desire. Jānaki would have come to me likewise, all aflutter with her longing for love, if only she had not been carried off. The sight of this Kāraṇḍava bird splashing in the pleasant water and playing with its mate inflames my desire.’ The epic is explicit in describing srngara. 

  

71. How should one talk? We get to know it from Rama’s praise of Hanuman’s speech of introduction: ‘His talk, neither verbose nor ambiguous, neither too slow nor too hurried, came from his chest through the throat with ease, pitched in medium tone. His pronunciation is well-cultivated and amazing. It is awesome and paced well, captivating the heart.’

 

72. An Acharya is one who unites two people. Actually, in the spiritual sense, he unites the jivatma of his sishya with paramatma. Anyone who thus unites two people is an Acharya. My teacher explained how Hanuman played the role of Acharya in three instances. He unites Sugriva and Rama as friends. He then unites Vibhishana and Rama in what Bhagavatas celebrate as saranagati. Then finally, he unites Sita and Rama, the separated couple; it is symbolic of the union of Jivatma, separated from Paramatma, with Paramatma.

 

73. Lakshmana says to Hanuman after briefing him on the background of their arrival in Risyamuka, ‘अहं चैव हि रामश्च सुग्रीवं शरणं गतौ ॥ Rāma and I seek refuge in Sugriva.’ The word saranam is used even in the context of Rama seeking the help of Sugriva for finding out Sita and getting her back. Lakshmana in fact waxes eloquent about Rama’s being the sole refuge of the world, but having to seek refuge in Sugriva. 

 

74. On seeing the ornaments shown by Sugriva as dropped by Sita while Ravana overflew Risyamuka while abducting her, Lakshmaṇa says, ‘I do not know the bracelets nor the ear-pendants; but I know the anklets, as I used to prostrate myself at her feet every day’. This is another sloka cherished by Bhagavatas. One can sense the deep anguish Sita’s suspecting him caused Lakshmana.

 

75. Tara, wife of Vali, is one of the wise women of mythology. There is a saying, ‘அஞ்சிலே ரெண்டு பழுதில்லே.’ (Two out of five are faultless). My teacher explained that it referred to Pativratas (chaste women). The five are Sita, Ahalya, Draupadi, Tara and Mandodari. Sita was abducted, Ahalya fell for Indra and Draupadi was married to five people. Only Tara and Mandodari have been absolutely pure, he would say.

Later, Vali commends her to Sugriva like this, ‘Tara is an expert in pursuing the core purpose and in gauging every impediment that could arise from any direction. Whatever she advises as appropriate should be done without hesitation, for nothing ever happens different from what Tārā foresees’.

Tara advises Vali not to accept the second challenge from Sugriva, for he must have strong support to come again after having run away. She has heard of Rama and praises Rama and this is included in prayer by devotees:

निवासवृक्षः साधूनाम् आपन्नानां परा गतिः।

आर्तानां संश्रयश्चैव यशसश्चैकभाजनम् ॥

He is the tree under which good people find shelter. He is the recourse for people in hardship. He is the refuge for those who are distressed. He alone is the place where renown can be found.”

She counsels Vali to coronate Sugriva as prince and bring about rapprochement. Vali rejects her with valid reason, “It is the duty of a warrior to accept a challenge to fight. Rama is a just man. How will he do something sinful?” But, the well-meant advice to patch up with Sugriva and be in the good books of Rama does not appeal to him. He paid by his life for rejecting it.

Later, when the angry Lakshmana visits Sugriva, Sugriva feels it expedient to field Tara before Lakshmana so that he could be assuaged before Sugriva faced him. Tara fulfils the role expected of her admirably.

 

76. Vali is described in glowing terms by Valmiki on being slain and fallen. The arrow from Rama was his visa to heaven, says the poet. His fall is likened to the fall of the sun at the end of a eon. That is interesting. Science says now that there is an expiry date for the sun, though in some distant future. The ancient Indians seem to have had an inkling of it.

Valmiki calls Vali’s reproof of Rama as परुषं धर्मसंहितम्, harsh and clothed in dharma. The poets are impartial, comments Rajaji. Vali reasons:

(i)   What have you achieved killing me when I was fighting with somebody else?

(ii)  I counted on your virtues and entered into the duel with Sugriva, spurning my wife’s advice. Not seeing you, I assumed that you would not attack me, as I was engaged with another one.

(iii)  I have done no harm in your realm or city, nor put any slight upon you, nor engaged in direct combat with you, nor committed any sin. Why should you kill me, a Vānara dwelling in the Vana, living on fruits and roots, while I was engaged with another?

(iv)  We are animals that roam in the Vana. What could you possible covet, in the Vana or among my possessions? My skin is not fit to be worn by good men, my hair and bones are taboo to them, and my flesh is not be eaten by those like you.

(v)   If you had fought with me face to face, you would have seen the god of death by now. (There appears no mention that Vali would get half the strength of the opponent in a direct fight and that is why Rama chose to kill him indirectly. But, Vali’s boast here may give a hint perhaps. In Uttara Kanda, which seems to be a later addition, Vali’s story appears in detail).

(vi)  Sugriva getting the kingdom after I go to heaven is right; but not your killing me abjuring Dharma in the fight.” 

Rajaji, a devout man of high standing with implicit faith, does not consider the explanation by Rama satisfactory.

 

77. Rama consoles the bereaved survivors of Vali. He says, “Nothing can be done once a person has passed away. It is नियति (cosmic order) which drives the world. Everyone is bound by it and acts under it according to one’s nature (स्वभावः). Time moves within its limit; neither it transgresses, nor can anyone overcome it. Vali has enjoyed the fruits of his action and has now attained a supreme destiny. You have cried enough. You must now get on with further things to be done.”

Those that live mourn the dead, it is the custom and cultural baggage, but it is for a while. The living have more pressing things to do than declare a lifelong mourning. No one has done it and it is wise. Let us care for the living, for ourselves too since we are living. When we are gone, let those that remain care for themselves and carry on.

 

78. Some 'rational' thoughts. We observe how when a monkey jumps, its body stretches, They jump fairly long spans deftly. The eagles have a keen eyesight that from so high in the sky they can espy a prey far below, swoop down and latch on to it in a precision move. Have these been magnified in the capacity of the monkeys to cross the ocean and the ability of Sampati to spot Sita miles away in Lanka? “It seems to me that even the wind cannot move here undetected.”

Normally, we use such exaggeration to describe the intensity of a situation or feeling. These might have been taken verbally to write accounts like Vayu, Varuna, etc. were slavish to the rakshasas.   

 

79. Sundara Kandam is a favourite with devotees. 'Sundara' was the pet name of Anjaneya, says a source. Anjaneya is the hero of Sundarakanda. It is self-contained with the mission being finding the whereabouts of Sita and that is achieved. He makes a pledge to get the job done and overcomes obstacles, despairs in not finding Sita first, and returns after having found her, reassured her and forewarned the rakshasas.

Hanuman thinks at every step how to accomplish Rama’s purpose and how to avoid foolishly hampering it. The qualities of Rama are praised again and again in it. Hanuman says Ramakatha to Sita and then to Ravana. Hanuman himself summarises Sundarakanda when he narrates to his companions how he found Sita.

Sita is in despair and wonders whether such sordid life is worth living. Hanuman talks wisely to her about the preciousness of life and how before long suffering will end, about the certainty of Rama rescuing her once he returns and reports her whereabouts.

The plot of this section has suspense, disappointment and delight, and valour.

 

 80. Hanuman prays to gods before taking off. The first deity is Surya. Why Surya first? A pouranika was imaginative. He said that Rama belonged to Ikshvaku dynasty that was in Suryavamsa. As Hanuman was going for Ramakarya, it was appropriate to invoke Surya’s blessings first. His own master, Sugriva, was Suryaputra. Surya is the prathyaksha daivata. Even ordinary folk invoke Surya as sakshi in their agitated moments. Hanuman himself had obtained boons from Surya.


Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Silence

मौनं
Breaking the silence! My rambling thoughts

Why do we talk? To communicate. There are compulsive talkers; they have to utter something (pl do not use this argument against me), a listener is a pretext. We are excluding them from discussion.
What should we communicate?
In college, the Principal who took a class on morals, argued why lying is a sin like this: the purpose of speech is to convey a truth; lying goes against that. A subhashita seems to suggest the same:
वरं मौनं वचनमनृतम् (Silence is better; not speech that tells an untruth).
But, speech has become an evolved subject and goes beyond what it might have meant in the beginning. Through speech here, we are talking on
मौनं, not on speech.
मौनं is generally understood as absence of speech. Some sayings commend मौनं thus:
1.
मौनं सर्वार्थसाधनः Silence is the means to achieve whatever one wants to. (Perhaps winning an election in India is not covered in this. Also, all submissions to god are made loudly rather than in silence! God must be hard of hearing).
2.
मौनिनः कलहो नास्ति There is no trouble for one who is silent.
3. Speech is silvern, silence is golden.
And there is a left handed compliment:
विभूषणं मौनं अपण्डितानां Silence is an ornament for fools. The idea is also conveyed in: It is better to remain silent and be considered a fool rather than to open your mouth and confirm it.
It is also believed
मौनं स्वीकृति लक्षणम् (மௌனம் சம்மதத்திற்கு அறிகுறி): Silence is tacit acceptance. Normally, this is presumed to be the answer of a boy/girl about an alliance. It applied to a few generations ago.

It is said that silence is the heart of music. Music has to be such that it enhances the quality of silence. Music is a language by itself, it is said. It communicates, does not just entertain.

Silence is absence of speech, not absence of communication. Dakshinamurthy communicates effectively through silence: मौनं हि प्रकटितं व्याख्यानं शिष्याः छिन्नसंसयाः. Silence is the mode of teaching and the disciples are cleared of all doubts. சுருங்கச்சொல்லி விளங்கவைத்தல் (explaining with minimum words), brevity is the soul of wit, etc. emphasise being precise.

Now, what is the vow of silence?
It is abstinence from speech. It has been found to be beneficial by many people in many ways. It is a personal experience.
My aunt used to be on the vow often, but she used to ‘talk’ with lips and gestures. Only sound was missing.
When I tried silence half-heartedly, I found that my mind was in violent conversation with some absent or even imaginary persons (no, I am not yet mad). Thus in many cases, what is practised is that sound pollution is avoided.
मौनं is looking inward. We are all the time looking outward. That is the purpose and function of the senses. The Upanishads beckon us to shut the path of the senses and turn oneself inward. It is to undress, in a manner of talking, and see what the naked self is – peeling off the कोशा (sheaths) and be that which we are without those outer covrings.
There is in that deep silence absence of conflict and strife that charcterise our life, and the Ananda which is our ‘natural’ state.
The vow of silence is a beginning to that state, it is not avoidance of another, but realizing that there is no other.
When someone asked Ramana how we should avoid hurting others, he replied, ‘There are no others.’ The answer is subtle and profound. It is when we see another, the very chance to hurt occurs. When we see ourselves in others and others in ourselves as Gita says, there can be no intention to hurt.
That is far removed from direct experience and is theory for the most part.
But, the world will be a great place if silence is the preferred mode.

 

From my diary (4.7.2002) 

I have been thinking and saying for some time now of the need for Freedom of Silence rather than Freedom of Speech. Kalil Gibran in an article on "Mister Gabber' says: 'Where can a lover of tranquillity find rest from him? Will God ever have mercy on my soul and grant me the grace of dumbness so I may reside in the paradise of Silence?'

 

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Silence

Silence is not about keeping secrets, but about understanding secrets. Silence is not about avoiding being caught stupid, but sharpening the intelligence (ability to know).
Silence is not about winning over someone else, but one's own mind.
Silence is not the means to an attainment, but attainment.
What have I been doing? Breaking the silence. Alas, that is the issue. Silence is not easy.


October 29, 2016

It requires candour to speak our mind fearlessly; it requires character to hold the tongue when nothing effective is achieved by such utterance.

In a meeting of importance, we must speak what we consider appropriate for effective decision making.

(It is a futile reminder to myself).

 

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Spirituality does not depend on belief in god. It depends on belief in self and TRUTH. 

Noise is sound in common parlance and unwanted interference in signal transmission.

Noise with meaning is word or means of human communication. Signal without interference is means of communication in electromagnetic spectrum.

Silence is absence of noise.

But, silence in spiritual practice is more than absence of outward noise. Our mind produces noise incessantly more than even oral production by some characters like Doolittle who match the vocal chord with the mind. It is this mental noise which obstructs and often distorts communication and understanding even in earthly matters, and more so when we try to grasp the esoteric, essentially existential, knowledge.

Religion specialises in noise like jumbo mumbo and may come in the way of spirituality. Spirituality is universal, obstructed by mental noise misled by the wayward senses, and not really aided by faith which is a personal choice. We see violence incited by religion because of false identification with chaff. Religion at times forbids spirituality as inimical to faith.

Religion that blocks spirituality is what is harmful. Any religion is susceptible to this negativity. Fanatics are secularly distributed and have spawned among all faiths.

The world needs spirituality today more than ever. 

 

 

Jun 2, 2005

Wisdom is in silence, in the silence of the wise not of the fool.

I had an aunt who used to observe silence. She will communicate by mime and gestures. The silence was only in absence of sound. I wonder whether it is real silence.

Wisdom lies in silence. When I say this, I am unwise and it becomes a paradox. That is the misfortune of language. 

Saturday, March 04, 2017

Writing



To write or not to write – that is the question.
To write like a hack or keep quiet like a dunce?
To write the raw impressions of an unsettled mind that sways with the wind or current, ambivalent and uncertain, or to keep watching in silence how everything passes and passes us by too?
To write angrily on the absurd and heartless things that overwhelm us in person or on reading the newspaper headlines, or turn a blind eye and keep a tranqill mind as if in compliance with Gita?
To write funnily and make others laugh, or to keep the tongue and pen in check lest we hurt innocent souls?
To admire others for the virtues they cleverly depict or seek the inner truths to understand how all life is equally grand and stupid?
To recall the glorious moments as well as the gloomy ones to share with equal-minded peple, or to leave behind the past and care for the present as many forwarders din it into our heads day in and day out?
It is best perhaps not to write.
(I have perfected over time how to write with nothing to tell!)


From my diary:
I cannot write something because I can find words to say. I must have something to say, which will connect with others as a routine in their life.
In the bank I came across proposals written in stylish English with literary allusions and it was a joy to read. After a few proposals, I grew weary of them. It seemed to be laboured and not to the purpose. At best, it seeks to divert the reader, if not to confuse. Writing is a waste if to showcase one’s bookish mastery and arrogance if intended to prove superior.
At the end of the day, Maugham must have the last word. All writing must be simple, lucid and euphonious, if possible. Standard must be the watchword, style being optional where elegant, as in dress. Unless one writes for the mere glee of showing how he is one up on others at the cost of relevance and communication.